.But what Astrid does not recognize yet is actually an honest truth that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- who possesses two boys-- may confirm: The fact that your relationship along with your moms and dads adjustments and also progresses as you both grow older, and hopefully right. "Your planet centers around [your little ones] when they're infants [and also] it's a lot job but lovely," O'Hara says. "Later, you really miss out on that, due to the fact that at that point you can't get all of them to accomplish anything you prefer all of them to do, due to the fact that they begin cultivating their own minds, their own opinions." And eventually, you find yourself in the location O'Hara, whose sons remain in their 20s and 30s, finds herself now, able to profit from her children. "They are actually merely such great young men," she mentions. "I'm not their colleague, but I adore having talks with all of them as well as being familiar with exactly how they think about life.".